“Jacob Chaos, loving partner, uncle, brother, mentor and lover of all things innocent and good, passed away in Santiago, Chile, Monday, 25 February 2013, after a brief but brave challenge with cancer.
Jacob’s life motto was “live life with love and have no regrets”. That he so did. At the time of his passing, Jacob was a Professor of English Language and Culture at the University of Information Sciences (UCINF) in Santiago, Chile. He was loved by his students and equally respected by his peers and colleagues. Through his avante garde use of modern media - You Tube, Twitter, FaceBook, and theatrical outlet, he vastly enlarged the horizons of his students and consistently challenged them to extend themselves and confidently believe in their skills and abilities. He imbued in them as well a love of life, respect and patience for all things and, that they could truly make a difference in the world about them.
Jacob loved his adopted homeland of Chile and the bustling capital of Santiago. In February 2012, he visited his family in Canada and provided too all, a marvellous uplifting visit. He relayed too though, that his visits to Canada would be reduced in upcoming years, owing to his becoming engrossed in his work and commitments in Chile. The family bonds would remain in tact though, in that he invited all to come and visit his beloved Chile, where he would play host and introduce all to the history, culture and beauty of the country he so embraced.
Jacob was beautifully simple and simply beautiful. A minimalist, he lived life not to acquire, but to give. He faced the challenge of cancer with grace, dignity and determination. Not once did he complain or seek pity or sympathy. He was truly inspirational and impacted tremendously those who were in loving service to him. He was a man of extraordinary depth and character. He will be missed by all whose lives he so lovingly, respectfully and tenderly touched. A truly sensitive, compassionate and loving human being - a Prince.”
“Death leaves a heartache, no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.”
Betty Joyce Abrams
July 3, 1925 - Jan. 31, 2013
Betty Joyce Abrams passed on at Nanaimo Regional General Hospital on Jan. 31, 2013. She is predeceased by her parents, Mabel and Morgan Jenkins; her husband, Ben Abrams; and sister, Patricia Wigen.
She is survived by sister Valerie Sawyer, (Keith Malcolm), daughers Lee Aldis, Ann Green and Patricia Poole; grandchildren Shawna Green, Holly, Emmett and Ashley Aldis, Maigan Poole and Tisha Flemming and 10 great-grandchildren.
Betty was born in Lloydminster, Alberta and grew up in Kitscoty, Alberta. She worked as a secretary in Ottawa during WWII before making Vancouver Island her home. She and her husband Ben Abrams operated a shipping and customs brokerage business (B&R Shipping) in Nanaimo for many years.
Betty moved to Gabriola in 1989 where she lived until the time of her passing.
Many of you may remember Betty when she greeted her customers with her cheerful smile and friendly manner when working in the coffee shop at the golf club and the White Hart Pub.
A ceremony of Betty’s life will be held at the Gabriola Golf Club on Saturday, Feb. 16 from 2 to 4 p.m. If anyone would like to help out, please bring appetizers.
Donations can be made in Betty’s name to the Gabriola Rescue of Wildlife Society (www.growls.ca) or to the Alzheimer Societies of Canada or B.C.
She will be missed by the many friends she made over the years.
Thanks for the memories!
Geraldine Veronica Girard
My Mom was a teacher
“My father stayed home and kept house while Mother taught Grades 1-8 in a one-room school on Saturna Island. I attended the school and wanted to use the bright-coloured chalks to draw on the blackboard, but my mother wouldn’t allow it so I kicked up a fuss and was sent home. On that day I vowed I would become a school teacher when I grew up and write on the blackboard anytime I wanted.”
And so she did. Mom taught many of Nanaimo’s youth for years at Cedar, Brechin, Northfield, Princess Anne and Harewood schools.
She was a teacher, who taught us the obvious things a mother teaches her children in childhood, but even more important things as we grew up: how to make conversation in a room fallen flat, how to show caring by visiting people who were older or infirm, and think of things to say to them. Drop off a loaf, or cookies or send a card. She taught us that love, compassion, manners and politeness, forgiveness and to never hold a grudge were the most important things.
She didn’t tell us these things ... she lived them.
Mom knew the importance of being there for her children; after school with tea on the stove and the smell of fresh baking wafting through the house. She was a master of comfort food and gave my brothers and me a childhood that was worry free and nothing less than magical.
“Babysitting” hardly describes the time Mom spent with her grandchildren. She would bake and read with them, teach them to print and play cards, make booklets with stamps and crayons, and no doubt coloured chalk, all found in the “classroom” she set up in her and Dad’s home.
Mom was a teacher, our loving teacher, and I am grateful God gave her to us. We will miss you more than you know, but we’re thankful you are now resting easy, hand in hand with Dad at last.
It is with heavy hearts that we say farewell to our beloved Mother, Geraldine Veronica Girard who passed away peacefully on Jan. 18. A native daughter of Nanaimo, Geraldine was born on Oct. 15, 1925 to parents Mary Rose Mayovsky of Nanaimo, and Martin Tapay who emigrated from Czechoslovakia. We remember many happy days spent with Mom and Dad at “La Mer” on Berry Point Road.
On behalf of my brothers and I, thanks to all who sent such beautiful cards, calls and emails. Sincerely, Melinda Wilde.
Justin (Jerry) Lee Devlin
July 2, 1974 - Jan. 24, 2013
Justin was the youngest of 5 sons born to Mike Devlin and Jean Behnke. Brothers Jim (Laura), Steve (Janice), Keith and Scott. Uncle to many nieces and nephews.
Born in Sault Ste. Marie, Ontario, Justin grew up with a love of the outdoors and was always curious about everything nature had to offer. This love eventually led him to Gabriola Island, British Columbia where he thrived. He had many hobbies, including sculpting, photography, kayaking, canoeing, baseball and singing karaoke.
Justin will be deeply missed and warmly remembered by all of his friends, many of whom he considered family, as well as by the entire Gabriola Island community.
Justin’s family wishes to thank everyone for their overwhelming kindness, sincere sympathy and incredible generosity during this very difficult time.
A memorial was held in Justin’s memory on Saturday, Feb. 2 at the Gabriola Community Hall.
Eleanor Anne Hendy King
Jan. 13, 1949 - Jan. 22, 2013
Anne died at Nanaimo Regional General Hospital.
Preceded in death by parents, Albert (1980) and Eleanor (1999), and dear sister Grace (2007).
Survived by caring husband, John, beloved son, Miles Norrington (Gwyn Robinson), companion, Henry, and extended family and friends.
Donations, if desired, can be made to the BC Cancer Foundation in memory of the Hendy family.
Kathleen Nora McErlean
June 28, 1915 - Jan. 12, 2013
Kay passed away peacefully on Jan. 12, 2013 at the age of 97. Predeceased by husband Wally, son Brian and sisters Norma and Barbara. She is survived by and will be lovingly remembered by son Terry (Becky), granddaughter Tracy (McErlean-Nortcliffe), great-grandchildren Peter and Melissa and many other family members, extended family and friends.
Born June 28, 1915 and raised in Vancouver, she married in 1939 and was a loving mother to two sons. Mom worked for many years in the securities business until retiring and deciding to move to Gabriola Island.
Mom was introduced to Gabriola in the late ’30s when her mother came to visit her cousins, the Andersons, at Anderson (Surf) Lodge. Her mother made the island her home in 1947 and Mom retired to the same property in 1985. She enjoyed island living and her enthusiasm for life led her on many adventures, travelling extensively with friends and her sister Barbara. She had a great love for all her family and was happy that many of us made the decision to make Gabriola our home as well.
Her participation in community events, clubs, organizations and charities connected her to countless friends and her beautiful spirit and immense heart was recognized by all who knew her.
Mom’s wonderful smile, happy disposition and unconditional love will be cherished by all of us. She made the world a better place. A heartfelt thank you to all for the love and support shown to Mom with special thanks to cousin Lynne Fjellgaard, Drs Bosman and Thorne and the Fellowship Church.
A celebration of life will be held on Friday, Jan. 25 at 1 p.m. at the Gabriola Fellowship Church, 775 North Road, Gabriola Island.
No flowers please. If you wish to make a donation please consider People for a Healthy Community (PHC) or Cats Alive.
Yetta Lees Strasdine
Jan. 26, 1931 - Jan. 16, 2013
Yetta Lees Strasdine née Olesen died Jan. 16, 2013 after a short illness. She faced her death with curiosity and openness like everything else in her life.
She is predeceased by her first husband John Lees, and is survived by husband George Strasdine; her sisters, Tinne Fink and Lissi Olesen; and children Erik Lees (Kathi), Barbara Lees (Svend), Kath Murray (Ted), Michael Lees (Maree) and her sister-in-law Frances Montgomery.
Yetta was born in Denmark in 1931 and came to Canada at the age of 19 where she worked as a salesperson covering western Canada, and raised her family in West Vancouver. In the mid ’60s she was a charter student in sociology at SFU. She returned to earn an MBA the year she turned 50 and became a grandmother – the first of 26 grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Upon retirement, she moved from Toronto to Gabriola Island, where she designed and built a home, and later married George and joined him on Cooper Road.
Yetta was a teacher, businesswoman and a fibre artist. She loved community and wove many circles of friends and colleagues across Canada, Denmark and around the globe. Circle Craft Cooperative, which Yetta founded in 1974, was one of her proudest endeavors. She taught at Capilano and Seneca Colleges, helped support craftspeople in Canada’s North and in developing countries, including a woman’s felting co-op in Kyrgyzstan. In her last years Yetta contributed her time to the Gabriola Commons. She would be delighted, in lieu of flowers, for contributions to be extended to the Commons (www.gabriolacommons.ca/donations.html).
Memorial services will be held at Dragon’s Lodge on Gabriola Island, at 1 p.m. on Tuesday, Jan. 22 and at the Vancouver Unitarian Church, Oak St. & 49th Ave., on Saturday, Jan. 26 at 1 p.m.
Apr. 17, 1937 - Dec. 14, 2012
It is with deeply saddened hearts we announce the sudden passing of Sietse Visser on Dec. 14, 2012 at the age of 75.
He was born April 17, 1937 in Holland and immigrated to Canada when he was 16. He made his way out to Alberta in search of work where he met the love of his life, Diane, and they married April 23, 1960.
Sietse was a devoted husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather, but he was also an expert hug collector. It’s like it was his unspoken mission in life to spread as much love and laughter as was humanly possible.
Sietse had many accomplishment in life, business-wise, etc., but none was he more proud of than his family. He is survived by his wife Diane, daughter Sheila (Dan), son Darren (Donna), daughter-in-law Dianna, daughter-in-law Lavonne, grandchildren Aaron (Louise), Jordon, Brandon (Jayme), Dallen, Devon, Dale, Donaven, Krysten and Nathan, and great-grandchildren Joshua and Levi. He also leaves to cherish his memory three sisters and three brothers.
He was predeceased by his parents, oldest son Wynn, two sisters and one brother.
Sietse always said, next to marrying Diane, the best decision he ever made was retiring at age 50 and moving to Gabriola Island. He said he had found Shangri La where he felt unconditionally accepted and loved.
A small family gathering took place Dec. 21, 2012, but we hope to hold a larger celebration of life in the spring, which was Dad’s favourite time of year. In lieu of flowers, we graciously ask you to send your donations in memory of Sietse to the Gabriola Health Care Foundation, PO Box 295, Gabriola Island, B.C. V0R 1X0.
Dad was all about paying it forward and perpetual giving. Dad also always said leave nothing unsaid; life is a gift, fill it with love and laughter, for you wouldn’t want to receive an empty gift.
Nov. 9, 1947 - Nov. 27, 2012
Lynn Coleman died suddenly at home on Tuesday, Nov. 27, 2012.
Lynn was born in Brooks, Alberta on Nov. 9, 1947. She graduated from the University of Alberta in pharmacy. After meeting her future spouse, Oliver, they spent time in Winnipeg, Vancouver, Edmonton, Toronto and finally, yearning to return to the West Coast, settled on Gabriola Island in 1989.
She was predeceased by her mother in 1974, her father in 1982 and a nephew in 2003. She is survived by her husband, Oliver Woolcock of Gabriola, her sisters, Diane Visser (Cec) of Gabriola and Audrey Hansen (Villy) of Fort McMurray, and many nephews and a niece.
During her life she enjoyed outdoor pursuits, becoming an accomplished skier, scuba diver and sailor. Her Gabriola summers were spent exploring the West Coast from Seattle, Washington to Glacier Bay, Alaska. She was the commodore of the Silva Bay Yacht Club for three terms and actively participated in the Gabriola Tops Club.
During her spare time she pursued her creative side by painting detailed watercolors, sewing and many other craft-related projects.
Her effervescence and shining personality endeared Lynn to all her friends.
Anyone who met her would be sure to remember her.
At Lynn’s request there will be no service. A celebration of her life will be held on a date to be announced in the New Year.
In lieu of flowers, Lynn’s favourite charities were the SPCA and the Georgia Strait Alliance.
Our dear friend Dave McIntyre left this world on Tuesday evening, Nov. 27, 2012 and is now part of the eternal cosmos in all his beauty and generosity.
Though he wouldn’t say it, he has been a benefactor and supporter of many people on this island and has given care, joy and love to anyone he could. He leaves behind two sisters in eastern Canada, but his larger family is composed of Gabriolans and people from the northern community of Rainbow Alley on the Babine River. As a surveyor he has mapped out the property of many Gabriolans and has seen this island through many years of development.
A quiet man with a passion for motorcycles, he has toured the B.C. coast with a passion for its wildlife and its beauty. He was never happier than when he had a fly fishing rod in his hand or was teaching someone to cast.
A celebration of his life will be announced.